who dated English hottie Dominic Cooper
, talked to
Brit pub Grazia
about their break-up after it became apparent that he was seeing
his Mama MIA
co-star Amanda Seyfried
behind her back.
Despite what's happened, 28-year old Carolan tells the mag that she is deeply fond of the 'other' woman and still speaks to her ex. "I've cried a lot of tears," she says. "We still love each other, but we're not together. I also care