Jon Gosselin's pals have spoken " and insist that reports labeling the reality star a cad who is stepping out on his wife Kate not the least bit accurate. Pat Fagan, a bouncer at Legends Lounge, calls Jon's recent night away from home completely innocent " even though he did show up with a woman who was not his wife. "They seemed like casual friends," says Fagan. "There was no romantic anything. They weren't gazing into each other