has decided against
speaking about the death of her 16-year-old son, Jett
, at a panel during the California Governor's Conference for Women in October.
Preston had originally agreed
to discuss life after she and husband John Travolta
lost their son earlier this year at the "Grief & Resilience" panel at the Maria Shriver
Says Kelly: "It is with my sincere apologies that I must pull out from speaking at