Sibel Mehmet is jealous of her 17-year-old daughter, Yasmin . "At 38," she writes, "I'm finding it incredibly difficult to accept the fact that my 17-year-old daughter is the focus of the admiring looks I used to attract." Mehmet, 38, spends the majority of the piece discussing her own beauty ; how her mother, a beautician, pushed her to focus on her appearance, how she began using makeup at 12, and how