Break out the wine, roses, ridiculous group dates and emotional baggage. Beloved Bachelorette runner-up Ben Flajnik will begin his starring turn as The Bachelor when ABC premieres its 16th season of the reality romance show January 2. The 29-year-old California winemaker says he's been In Love three times in his life, but it wasn't until The Bachelorette finale that he proposed (to Ashley Hebert). She turned him down and got engaged to ...